Attraction is a very personal thing. Clearly, there needs to be an attraction between two people for a shidduch to work out. 

At the same time, attraction needs to be put in perspective of the marriage and lifelong compatibility. In the actual marriage, other factors are most likely going to play a much greater role.   Shared values, empathy, generosity, stability all are elements that are crucial for successful marriage.

That was just in brief, now let’s go deeper Into things…

• “I can’t help who I am attracted to”