He says “I am not ready, let’s continue dating”. Should I agree?
January 12, 2022
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The person you are dating says: “I still do not know how I feel about the relationship, but I really like you and want to
Bond
Deepening the relationship
The second, and typically longest, phase of dating is about deepening the connection, creating the opportunity for the relationship to develop.
In this “Bond” section, you will find lots of ideas and questions to help you develop the connection, as well as materials on how you can tell whether the person you are dating is likely to be your suitable spouse and life-partner.
We address a multitude of topics, from what to do if something is bothering you about your date, whether you are settling for second best, what to do if you are not developing emotional feelings – and so much more.
Do you get stuck in the transition from “me” to “we”?
January 12, 2022
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This bothers her and plants seeds of doubt in her mind about whether she made the right choice. Being confronted by jarring feelings of self-doubt
Why can’t I feel that passionate love?
January 12, 2022
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You are dating someone you get along with great. You feel great affection towards him; but despite numerous dates, you do not seem to be
Why am I not ‘falling in love’?
January 12, 2022
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Some people don’t fall in love, rather they grow in love. And so, their dating experience and path to marriage is different from most. They
Know the difference between love and infatuation.
January 12, 2022
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Make sure that what you have is (the beginnings of) real love, not infatuation. Marriage is true long-term deal, so it is vital that your
Is it true that opposites attract?
January 6, 2022
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One of the great clichés in relation to dating is that “opposites attract.” Is it true? Mostly not. But while opposites may not attract, many
End a Shidduch with dignity.
January 6, 2022
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If you are clear that this shidduch is not going to work out, it is best to bring it to a close without delay. Going
I really care for her, so why can’t I feel that passionate love?
January 4, 2022
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Too much thinking can get in the way of feelings.
Do you get stuck in the transition from “me” to “we”?
January 4, 2022
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Moving from selfish to selfless.
Don’t avoid uncomfortable topics; that’s what dating is for.
January 4, 2022
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Talk it out; don’t guess or infer.
Why am I not ‘falling in love’?
December 2, 2021
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Some people don’t fall in love, rather they grow in love. And so, their dating experience and path to marriage is different from most. They
He says “I am not ready, let’s continue dating”. Should I agree?
December 2, 2021
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The person you are dating says: “I still do not know how I feel about the relationship, but I really like you and want to
Difference is not the end of the world.
December 2, 2021
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Dating is mostly about ensuring there is a great deal of agreement: about values, life goals, mutual interest, and so on. But there does not
Beware of red flags.
December 2, 2021
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It is a wonderful quality to be tolerant and accepting of others, but when it comes to dating this has its limits. As much as
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