Why am I not ‘falling in love’?
December 2, 2021
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Some people don’t fall in love, rather they grow in love. And so, their dating experience and path to marriage is different from most. They
Conflicting and confused priorities.
December 2, 2021
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Without realizing it, some people are actually looking for opposites in a single person – which may explain why things are not going so well.
Are there actually two of you dating? Why you may be perpetually dissatisfied.
December 2, 2021
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Some people find that whomever they date, they invariably find themselves dissatisfied. Nothing seems to work for them. Usually, people who struggle in this way
Why can’t I find someone with all the qualities I am looking for?
December 1, 2021
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It is about the math. As soon as a person is looking for a quality or feature that is above-average – in other words, less
I feel very strongly drawn to my date, but some things bother me.
December 1, 2021
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Someone may be “stuck”. While they are dating someone they really like and get along with excellently, they are struggling with the idea of proposing
“I like the person I’m dating, but I find other people much prettier/smarter.”
December 1, 2021
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This bothers her and plants seeds of doubt in her mind about whether she made the right choice. Being confronted by jarring feelings of self-doubt
Are you afraid of getting close?
December 1, 2021
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Are you fine dating until the point where the dating turns “serious?” As soon as you sense that you have crossed over into “commitment territory,”
Why am I not ‘falling in love’?
June 1, 2021
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Some people don’t fall in love, rather they grow in love. And so, their dating experience and path to marriage is different from most. They won’t be getting those butterflies or heady feelings that many get. Still, they can ‘know’ that this person is a great marriage partner.
I feel very strongly drawn to my date, but some things bother me.
March 23, 2021
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If you have been dating for a while, and have learned the hard way that it is not easy to find someone who truly works for you, then you need to be focused on what really matters. Perhaps all people would do well to be clear about their priorities and not allow relatively minor issues to dampen enthusiasm for a promising relationship.
I really care for her, so why can’t I feel that passionate love?
March 22, 2021
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You might be hoping that if you develop feelings towards, then your doubts will vanish. But it is your doubts that are making the chances of feeling love improbable. Go through the issues you have one by one and see if they really are deal-breakers. If they are not, you have to be willing to let them all go and start to “get in the moment.” You will see things change quite dramatically.
“I like the person I am dating, but I find other people much prettier/smarter.”
March 22, 2021
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Sometimes, a man sees a woman that he finds particularly attractive and cannot help himself comparing her more favorably to the woman he is dating or is married to. It is important that he take a broader view and recognize that it is highly unlikely that it can become a successful marriage.
Do you get stuck in the transition from “me” to “we”?
March 22, 2021
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Dating begins as a selfish act, whereby a single person is seeking their own happiness. If it is to culminate in a lasting commitment it must result in a selfless love of another. For dating to have succeeded, we need to go from “me” to “we.” That is some journey to go on.
Some people get stuck along the way. If you find that you consistently get stuck along the way, it is worthwhile to ask yourself “Maybe it is me?” and not always assume there is something wrong with the other person.
Are there actually two of you dating? Why you may be perpetually dissatisfied.
March 18, 2021
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Every person’s character is made of ‘parts’, generally these work well together. For some people, their parts want conflicting things. This makes dating for marriage more complex. But not impossible.
Are you afraid of getting close?
March 18, 2021
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Some people are fine dating. Everything generally goes great. They are confident, at ease, engaging, open – until the point where the dating turns “serious.” As soon as they sense that they have crossed over into “commitment territory,” all kinds of strange things start happening.
How addiction to pornography could be affecting your dating.
March 17, 2021
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Needless to say, this is a highly sensitive topic. We discuss how dating and pursuit of marriage is likely being impeded by an addiction to porn. The purpose here is to look at the ways that it complicates a person’s path towards forming a healthy relationship.
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