Finding out about a medical condition
January 10, 2022
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If you are told that a potential shidduch has a medical condition, it is reasonable for you to be apprehensive. Health is a very important
The person has a psychological illness – should I consider it?
January 5, 2022
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Understanding he difference between “psychological issues” and “psychological illness”.
The person I am dating seems to think only about himself. Should I get out?
January 4, 2022
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How to recognize problematic behaviors.
He says “I am not ready, let’s continue dating”. Should I agree?
December 2, 2021
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The person you are dating says: “I still do not know how I feel about the relationship, but I really like you and want to
Recognizing controlling tendencies.
December 2, 2021
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Some people are more passive, while others are more proactive. Some people are inclined to take more control of a situation, and other people are
Am I supposed to be concerned about this?
December 2, 2021
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You may return from a date with your head spinning? He said he didn’t like his job, is that an issue? She said she doesn’t
Beware of red flags.
December 2, 2021
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It is a wonderful quality to be tolerant and accepting of others, but when it comes to dating this has its limits. As much as
Does family really matter when it comes to a shidduch?
December 2, 2021
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Put very simply, family matters a lot, but not as much as some other things. It is true that family is an important aspect of
The person has a psychological illness – should I consider it?
December 2, 2021
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Psychological problems can cause enormous difficulties in a relationship, but there is also excessive fear and confusion around the issue. Just because someone is diagnosed
Finding out about a medical condition.
December 2, 2021
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If you are told that a potential shidduch has a medical condition, it is reasonable for you to be apprehensive. Health is a very important
“I feel all he is interested in are my looks”.
December 1, 2021
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Even if we consider ourselves good-looking and are proud of our appearance, we feel cheapened when other people are overly focused on our external appearance
I feel very strongly drawn to my date, but some things bother me.
December 1, 2021
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Someone may be “stuck”. While they are dating someone they really like and get along with excellently, they are struggling with the idea of proposing
The person I am dating has an anger issue, what should I do?
December 1, 2021
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There are two types of anger issues – and they are worlds apart. There are feisty people who are prone to raise their voices, get
Finding out about a medical condition
November 9, 2021
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If you are told that a potential shidduch has a medical condition, it is reasonable for you to be apprehensive. Health is a very important issue, but it is only one of many important issues. Take the time to understand the facts of the matter, which often show things in a different light. And remember to consider the whole person, and not reduce them to their area of difficulty.
Does family really matter when it comes to a shidduch?
July 30, 2021
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You may marry “into” a family, but you are not marrying “the” family. People should be assessed on their own merit. At the same time, it is important to know what to try to understand about the family’s role on the person themselves. What type of parenting or family life did they have? How have they dealt with adversity in their upbringing? And, how important is a close connection to your spouse’s family?
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