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Passive Pesach

“I’m more the type to wait to be asked; not so much to take initiative.”
  • Relies on others to drive the relationship forward, avoids taking the initiative themself
  • Waits for others to make decisions
  • Is comfortable letting others take charge
  • Appears hesitant or disengaged, even when he cares
  • May unintentionally leave others carrying the responsibility
  • Typically acts as if someone else is going to make decisions or take initiative
  • Often doesn’t notice what needs doing

Emotion:

Low energy+ Reluctance to take charge

Inner Mood:

Naturally waits for someone else to take the lead, rarely realizing others are hoping they’ll step forward.

Disclaimer

We understand that in presenting these dating types, we risk causing offense. After all, we’re describing real people—people like you and me.

We want to be clear: we recognize this challenge, and we’ve worked hard to avoid hurting feelings. We’ve agonized over every word to be as sensitive as possible.

At the same time, we’ve prioritized being real and honest. Too many people are struggling way too hard for way too long, and our goal is to be straight-up about how internal patterns and mindsets can contribute to that.

We’re willing to be liked less if it means helping more. That’s why we didn’t always soften things if doing so would water down the message or reduce its usefulness.

That said, it’s entirely possible we got some things wrong. We’re open to hearing that, and we’re willing to apologize and revise. If you feel anything in the “So Me” types should be changed, please let us know.

We ask that you comment with the same level of respect and sensitivity you’d want for yourself. Together, we can help bring more happiness to Klal Yisrael.

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