The Challenge
Many singles in our community are struggling in their search for a life partner. After years in the dating process, they and their families experience deep disappointment, worry, and heartbreak.
The Cause
While shidduch suggestions and social support are valuable, there’s often an internal barrier that keeps singles from moving forward. Many who face challenges in shidduchim are unknowingly stuck in patterns that hold them back.
The Course
This course is designed to deepen our understanding of why so many singles struggle and to empower those involved in shidduchim to better support singles on their journey to success.
The course will address a wide range of struggles that people experience during dating, such as connection and attachment issues, internal barriers, and personality issues.
The course will cover both theory and practice, providing a deeper understanding into the reasons that people may struggle along with extensive practical tools to help people enjoy success in dating.
The Impact
Equipping singles to:
- Recognize areas where they may be stuck
- Shift perspectives that limit progress
- Gain tools for impactful, intentional dating
- Build resilience to overcome obstacles
Subsidized Cost
$1200. Thanks to support from DateWell, the enrollment cost for this course is $800. (Limited scholarships available.)
Includes:
- Shidduch Success book
- Course Guidebook and Bonus materials
- WhatsApp group with course presenter
Limited space
To enable strong levels of participation, the course is limited to 15 participants. Women only.
Date and Time
The course involves 8 two-hour live interactive webinars, Tuesday evenings 8:00 PM Eastern, beginning June 30, 2026
Questions? Reach out to Rivkie
Questions? Reach out to Rivkie
Understand Why People get Stuck in Dating
A deeper approach to understanding the emotional and psychological dynamics that quietly shape dating and relationship decisions. For coaches, mentors, and shadchanim who want to better understand why sincere daters can still feel stuck in dating.
Many singles want marriage deeply… Yet, they still feel stuck.
- Overthink constantly
- Reject suitable matches
- Struggle to develop feelings
- Become anxious when things get serious
- Repeat the same dating patterns
- Feel confused by their own reactions
Often, the issue is not lack of desire. And not simply lack of compatibility. Sometimes there are deeper emotional dynamics quietly shaping the experience.
This course will help you understand
Emotional Connection & Attraction
Why some daters struggle to feel a real emotional connection.
Overthinking & Uncertainty
When anxiety and “what if” thinking get in the way.
Attachment & Ambivalence
Understanding fears of closeness, vulnerability, and commitment.
Repeating Patterns & Self-Sabotage
Recognizing the unseen cycles that keep daters stuck.
Compatibility & Discernment
How to evaluate relationships more clearly and confidently.
Coaching Conversations
Tools and frameworks for guiding with clarity, empathy, and confidence.