Why it almost always pays to come prepared.
During dating you should feel relaxed and be yourself. Just let it flow. The problem is that often we get stuck. We run out of things to say or cannot think of what to do.
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Tools & Mindsets for Productive Dating
Dating requires unique tools. Strong skills and suitable attitudes will contribute greatly to enjoyable and productive dates.
This section of the website covers a range of tips and ideas to generate good conversations, from listening and questioning skills. It offers great perspectives on the practice of dating, from dating etiquette to being presentable on a date, from understanding your own and your date’s personality, to recognizing when and how to seek outside assistance.
When dating does not work out, I take rejection very personally.
Some people experience rejection not merely as a (sometimes bitter) disappointment, but a very personal attack on their value as a human being. Rejection often feels worse than it usually is. Knowing this could help
When dating does not work out, I take rejection very personally.
It would be easy to just say not to take it personally, but if only it were that simple.
What people with strong personalities need to understand.
Dating is as much about perception as it is about reality. People with a strong personality can unintentionally leave too little space for the person they are dating to express themselves, especially if that person
What people with strong personalities need to understand
If you have a strong personality, you don’t have to change (and really, you can’t change). You do need to recognize how others perceive you, and perhaps adopt more moderately adjusted behaviors – especially when dating.
Turn off your phone!
It is amazing that this even needs to be said. When you are on a date, you have just entered the “holy of holies.” Show some respect. Unless there is a serious emergency brewing (in
The person I am dating seems to think only about himself. Should I get out?
How to recognize problematic behaviors.
The person I am dating has an anger issue, what should I do?
There are two types of anger issues – and they are worlds apart. The first type is common among feisty people. However, sadly there is an abnormal type of anger problem we shall call rage. Someone with a rage problem has a mental illness.
The person has a psychological illness – should I consider it?
Psychological problems can cause enormous difficulties in a relationship, but there is also excessive fear and confusion around the issue. Just because someone is diagnosed with a mental disorder does not mean they can’t be
Why it almost always pays to come prepared.
During dating you should feel relaxed and be yourself. Just let it flow. The problem is that often we get stuck. We run out of things to say or cannot think of what to do.
When dating does not work out, I take rejection very personally.
Some people experience rejection not merely as a (sometimes bitter) disappointment, but a very personal attack on their value as a human being. Rejection often feels worse than it usually is. Knowing this could help
When dating does not work out, I take rejection very personally.
It would be easy to just say not to take it personally, but if only it were that simple.
What people with strong personalities need to understand.
Dating is as much about perception as it is about reality. People with a strong personality can unintentionally leave too little space for the person they are dating to express themselves, especially if that person
What people with strong personalities need to understand
If you have a strong personality, you don’t have to change (and really, you can’t change). You do need to recognize how others perceive you, and perhaps adopt more moderately adjusted behaviors – especially when dating.
Turn off your phone!
It is amazing that this even needs to be said. When you are on a date, you have just entered the “holy of holies.” Show some respect. Unless there is a serious emergency brewing (in
The person I am dating seems to think only about himself. Should I get out?
How to recognize problematic behaviors.
The person I am dating has an anger issue, what should I do?
There are two types of anger issues – and they are worlds apart. The first type is common among feisty people. However, sadly there is an abnormal type of anger problem we shall call rage. Someone with a rage problem has a mental illness.
The person has a psychological illness – should I consider it?
Psychological problems can cause enormous difficulties in a relationship, but there is also excessive fear and confusion around the issue. Just because someone is diagnosed with a mental disorder does not mean they can’t be
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