Most people misunderstand the purpose of dating.
Most people think a date is about figuring out if you like someone or if you could marry them.
But much of that can be learned without ever sitting across from them.
The indispensable reason to go on a date is different.
It’s to give the other person a reason to want another one.
That happens when someone feels heard, respected, validated, appreciated, and understood.
When you give someone a good experience and there’s compatibility, they’ll want to keep coming back.
Dating isn’t just about evaluating. It’s about building trust and connection with someone who was a stranger not long ago.
Read the full article for the deeper breakdown. https://datewell.org/navigate/the-twin-goals-of-dating/