Your dating journey starts before your first date. Before resumes. Before profiles. Before meeting anyone.
Because when you go on a date, you are really asking one question:
“Would you like to join my life?”
So ask yourself: what life are you offering?
Not materially — but who you are, what you stand for, and what it would mean for someone to join your life.
To find the right person, it greatly helps to be the right person.
Do you have clear thoughts about the kind of spouse you want to be?
The kind of home you wish to build?
Have you worked on your habits and your strengths?
Before asking if someone can make you happy, ask if you understand what it means to make someone else happy.
An interesting, meaningful life creates better dating.
When you are doing interesting and positive things, you become a more interesting person to be with — and you give someone a real reason to want to join your life.
Dating is not a place to discover your basic identity.
Come to it ready.
Come with clarity.
Come with a life worth joining.