“I’m Not Feeling It”: How to build Connection
September 20, 2022
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One of the key reasons people struggle with dating is: bonding, or building a connection. If connection doesn’t develop automatically and organically, it is still
“I can’t help who I am attracted to”
July 6, 2022
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Some people may think they are attracted to only a certain look and won’t even consider dating someone who doesn’t have those features. They rationalize
How to give a great compliment.
March 22, 2022
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People appreciate being seen and acknowledged.
First deal with your psychological problems.
January 26, 2022
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Marriage is the solution for many things, but it is not the solution to psychological problems. If you come to a relationship with psychological problems,
You may be an idiot, but there is no obligation to show it!
January 24, 2022
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Dating doesn’t have to be all serious. If you have a fun personality, let it show. Have a good time, and let your date have
The Five Fundamentals – The factors most important to look for in a spouse.
January 24, 2022
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The five most important traits affecting relationships are: Emotional stability/Low neuroticism – Agitation, anger, irritation, hostility, touchiness, defensiveness Agreeableness – Degree of niceness and friendliness Conscientiousness – Making
Knowing yourself, so that you know who to marry
January 24, 2022
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Do you actually know what you are looking for? Your list of preferences is only useful if real thought has gone into it. While you
I am attracted to smart people, is that a problem?
January 24, 2022
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Many people find something exhilarating about dating someone particularly smart. They find it easier to respect the person and take them seriously. They find the
How and why anxiety can get the better of you in dating.
January 24, 2022
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Some people have what is known as an “anxious attachment orientation”, which means that they hold on extra tight to the person they are attached
Do I need therapy?
January 24, 2022
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You are single and have been trying to get married for a while. Things are not going so well. You have dated a decent number
“I did things in the past that I am now ashamed of; the guilt is eating me up.”
January 24, 2022
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Guilt is a healthy response as a reaction to the past, yet it is a dysfunctional response to our posture for the future. If the
Do I have to tell my date problematic things I have done in the past?
January 12, 2022
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If nothing else, dating is about honesty. There are several important reasons for this. The main element of dating is “mutual self-disclosure,” whereby each party
Knowing yourself, so that you know who to marry.
January 5, 2022
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The better you know yourself, the better prepared you are for dating and marriage.
The person has a psychological illness – should I consider it?
January 5, 2022
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Understanding he difference between “psychological issues” and “psychological illness”.
Are there actually two of you dating? Why you may be perpetually dissatisfied.
January 5, 2022
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Why you may be perpetually dissatisfied.
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