Most people think if something feels this hard in dating…
it must be wrong.
But that’s not always true.
Sometimes it’s not about the person.
It’s about what this process is bringing up in you.
When things start getting real, it can uncover fears you didn’t even know you had.
And if you don’t understand that, your instinct is to run.
Not because it’s wrong.
But because it’s unfamiliar.
The goal isn’t to avoid that feeling.
It’s to understand it.