Most people get this wrong in dating.
They either:
→ hesitate and seem unsure what to do next
or
→ take over and make decisions for the other person
Neither feels good.
But there’s a middle ground.
It’s called leading from behind.
You take initiative.
But you still include them.
“I’d like to get you a drink—does that work for you?”
You’re not putting it all on them.
And you’re not deciding for them either.
It’s simple.
But it’s what makes someone feel comfortable…
and actually enjoy being with you.