Player Syndrome: How dating can be too much about fun.
July 6, 2022
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In shidduch dating, both parties come to the table with a clear goal in mind: marriage. However, there is a small percentage of people –
Player Syndrome: How dating can be too much about fun.
July 6, 2022
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Some people treat dating only or mostly as a game, and seem resistant to developing a meaningful emotional connection and do not want to take the relationship in a serious direction. Often this is because of an ambivalent relationship orientation. They want the closeness, but they are not ready to be tied down. So they treat dating like a game. You can tell a player by the very dramatic gap between their nice manner and their dismissive attitude towards the relationship.
Player Syndrome: How dating can be too much about fun.
July 6, 2022
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More than the exact differences of your religiosity levels is the ‘what’ and ‘who’. What are the differences; are they major or minor? Who are each of you; how flexible are each of you?
It’s OK to ask personal questions on a first date
May 10, 2022
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More than the exact differences of your religiosity levels is the ‘what’ and ‘who’. What are the differences; are they major or minor? Who are each of you; how flexible are each of you?
How to be more interesting.
May 9, 2022
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When you have an interesting life, you will have so much more to speak about, and you’ll come across as an interesting person. Your dates will be more engaging and meaningful.
It’s OK to ask personal questions on a first date.
May 9, 2022
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Personal is not the same thing as private.
This might just be semantics, but they are two different types of questions. A private question addresses matters which are private. A personal question elicits an answer that is unique to that person.
He talks endlessly about himself on the date. Should I be concerned?
April 3, 2022
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Talking about himself a lot is not necessarily a sign of arrogance, or a problem. More important is how he thinks of, and treats, others.
We have different religious levels, is this a problem?
April 3, 2022
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More than the exact differences of your religiosity levels is the ‘what’ and ‘who’. What are the differences; are they major or minor? Who are each of you; how flexible are each of you?
How to give a great compliment.
March 22, 2022
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People appreciate being seen and acknowledged.
How to give great compliments.
March 22, 2022
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An authentic comment will come across as meaningful, memorable, and make the person feel special. A good compliment is genuine, full, specific and unique.
I had a lousy date. Should I continue seeing her?
February 22, 2022
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Hello. It can be truly unpleasant when a date goes wrong. You say that you are trying to figure out whether to continue. I imagine
I think his mother is controlling and manipulative.
February 22, 2022
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You cannot ignore this concern. But you should also not blow it out of proportion. It could be a huge issue, or not at all.
Is it true that opposites attract?
January 6, 2022
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One of the great clichés in relation to dating is that “opposites attract.” Is it true? Mostly not. But while opposites may not attract, many
End a Shidduch with dignity.
January 6, 2022
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If you are clear that this shidduch is not going to work out, it is best to bring it to a close without delay. Going
A suggestion from a shadchan is not the only way to find a shidduch.
January 6, 2022
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The shidduch can come from anywhere, and anyone can be the shadchan. Many shidduchim are made through a relative or friend, or even a stranger.
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